I can't tell you what he's thinking, obviously, but maybe giving my perspective as a gainer can give you some insight. I love my changing body. Seeing growth and where it lands is exciting and interesting. My belly is so cuddly, I love holding it and playing with it. I love feeling the weight of it and how it jiggles. I also find I am getting more comfortable I my body and self image as I grow...like this is who I really am as opposed to what people/society expect.
4 years